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Happy
marriages begin when we marry the ones
we love and they blossom when we love
the ones we marry." Tom Mullen.
Have
you ever tried defining the relationship
between love and marriage?
If yes, then you would have realized that
both are synonymous to each other. Love
is a dream and marriage is just an extension
of this dream to reality. When both dream
and reality comes together, it is the
best thing that can happen to a person.
Love is the subtle emotional wave within
us, which is perennial in this world of
death and passing away. The feeling of
love is inexplicable - we start feeling
good about things, which we earlier overlooked.
The company of the person we love can
make the most mundane chores seem like
an exciting job. So, love can be best
defined, as a feeling of bliss and ecstasy.
In Pakistan, love
marriages are
becoming a popular trend these days.
While traditionally arranged marriage
was the only option girls and boys had,
the scenario has changed considerably.
Parents, today, have a broader perspective
and are fully aware of the nuances of
caste system, thanks to education. They
have understood that it is mutual understanding
and feeling of love that matters most
in marriage and not the caste and status
of the bride/groom. Marrying the person
you love is just like taking a step ahead
in life and strengthening the already
strong relationship, with commitment and
efforts. However, love marriages are restrained
to the city culture and are not a part
of rural India, wherein arranged marriages
are still viewed as the right thing.
Everything
has two sides, similarly love marriage
too has its own set of
pros and cons. Talking about the positive
aspects of love marriage, the best thing
about it is that you marry the person,
whom you love and whom you want to get
married to, unlike what happens in arranged
marriages. Love marriage gives an individual
a time of knowing the person, whom he/she
have decided to spend the entire life
with. Also, you get an opportunity of
being just what you are, as your partner
would love you the way you are. As a couple,
you are well-aware of your differences
as well as your strengths, which makes
it easier, to strengthen the bond of love
after marriage.
A
drawback of love marriage
is inability to adjust with the family
members. Mostly, love marriage involve
coming together of two culturally and
socially different families. As such,
there are bound to be adjustment issues.
However, you should realize that every
relation has certain demands and certain
needs to be met if it is to thrive and
endure. So if you want to make your love
marriage a success, then it would be best
to give your nuptial some more time and
commitment. Once this is done, rest assured,
you will see your marriage blooming.
Love
Marriage in Pakistan:
In Pakistan love marriage is also becoming
popular and now a days boys and girls
prefer to marry at their own choice and
will than arrange marriage by parents. |
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